But Robert, I made clear to you that I am a feminist, and do not
consider myself anyone's dupe.  You are really anti-feminist, on
the grounds of some terrible damage you say the ideology has done,
and I do not ask you to conceal your opinion.  I disagree with it,
as I disagree also with some other opinions you seem to hold.
May I respectfully urge you to consider the word "vitriol-spewing"
which you tagged us with?  And ask to whom it best applies?
 	I recall that I offered to discuss the matter of your anti-
feminism privately; you asked me why not discuss it on the list;
I said I preferred to do it off-list; and you now send your blast
to the list-- ironically, just as our monitor puts you on warning
status.  May I ask why we could not have pursued the discussion
between the two of us?
 			Chandler