Dear Carol:
Of course, I would like to sit quietly and let others contribute if they wish so. But in the interest of making my own point of view clear without repeating myself here I would draw your attention to an
essay I recently wrote to grapple with what is often treated as two crises--of society and of nature (ecosphere).
In that essay, I discuss my own view of ecological socialism. I am completely in agreement with you about the necessity of some radical form of democracy (I use the term "participatory democracy"). But at the same time, democracy itself only provide us with an optimum sociopolitical structure to discuss and arrive at societal problems/issues including the shape of the post-capitalist social formation(s). In other words, democracy and state power are necessary but not sufficient. We also need to discuss and adopt some visions of social organization and how to get there (transition phases). I equate ecological socialism with a set of naturalist social formations where something like Marx's concept of associated producers provides its mode of production.
Of course, these are just my current ideas based on a life time of learning/unlearning and participating in social and political movements. I am completely open to any other views and would adopt them if they prove superior to me. The will be ample opportunity as we work our way as a movement (when there is a movement). However, the history of movements for radical social change since the advent of modern ideas of socialism is not very reassuring.
Best regards,
Kamran